You Are Your Own Boss
Hey Everyone,
Did you know that most people fail online because without a boss they can’t work?
Sure, maybe we say we hate / dislike our boss sometimes, but fact is some people need a boss!
Seriously it’s true, without a big bad boss barking orders, apparently some people don’t have it in them to do even the smallest of tasks.
This is actually one of the most common reasons people fail to run a successful business online.
You may think that you can work without a boss, that you don’t suffer from this problem, but I know I do.
I am terrible for not getting things done.
It’s not that I am lazy, I just forget everything I need to be doing plus add to that no one is telling me it has to be done and it’s a recipe for disaster.
Have you ever went to the shop to buy a specific item, then ended up coming home with 5 different items but not the one you specifically went out to get?
I do that all the time!
I even tried writing out a shopping list so I wouldn’t forget anything, then realized once I got to the shop that I had forgot the list of items I wrote out.
That’s why, if your like me, there is one habit you should try to ensure you do every day or night.
Write a to do list (but don’t lose it).
It’s really simple and anyone can do it.
You don’t even need any fancy gadgets to do it either, just a pen and paper and your good to go.
I suppose in this day and age, with so many mobile phones having notepads, applications and reminders etc a pen and paper might seem like something out of the dark ages, but at least it’s something everyone will have access to.
An even better idea is a small whiteboard, placed on the wall in front of your computer, or in your view when your on your laptop, then you will have a constant reminder of your tasks for that day.
But if you don’t want to use the good old fashioned methods, there are a few free sites on the internet that will allow you to create to do lists here:
Once you compile your daily list, just tick each item off as you do it.
It’s great to tick them off, put a big black line through them and give yourself a pat on the back.
Then at the end of the day you can see physical proof of everything you have achieved that day.
I promise if you do this, your business will progress in leaps and bounds.
Now you may, or may not, know I recently wrote a blog post where I apologized to my subscribers for disappearing off the face of the internet after my last online business took a nose dive!
The response I received, even after a year’s disappearing act was fabulous!
I was really touched by the responses that I received through blog comments and emails to me.
There was no way I could have ever dreamed that people would still remember me, let alone be interested in anything I said, especially after I was admitting I had failed!
A really strange thing happened after that blog post, I actually GOT MORE SUBSCRIBERS signing up for my free S.I.M.S reports which are reports teaching you how to make money online.
This baffled me!
Why would anyone visit a blog, read about someone’s failures, then sign up to receive their free reports???
But the penny dropped, I discovered that people were smart enough to realize that by failing I had ultimately set myself up for success.
Sounds weird doesn’t it, but it’s completely true.
If you ask most online marketers, they will admit they had a failed business before a successful one.
I believe I have learned from my mistakes, and one of my biggest mistakes was not completing the tasks required to move my business forward each day.
So that was lesson one that I learned, must do more.
Now, before that blog post I honestly believed I had failed.
I felt like a failure and I really didn’t think I would ever be able to set up an online business again, but after that blog post my views changed.
The apology blog post showed me that people are relying on me to help them, I need to be a success so that I can show you the correct way for you to be a success too.
I no longer see myself as a failure, I see what happened as a learning curve.
People say hindsight is a great thing, and it really is, my focus has become so clear now.
It’s like I have laser pointed vision and nothing or no one is gonna get in the way of my success!
Have you ever had that feeling when you just knew something really good was going to happen to you?
I have that feeling with my business this time around.
I didn’t have that feeling the first time around, I always thought I was going to fail, I never quite believed I could be successful, even when I was successful I kept waiting for my business to come crumbling down around me.
But this time I can clearly see where I made mistakes and I know the wrong decisions I made, I am not scared of being a success anymore, I am actively seeking it this time!
So, thanks to the kind comments I received, I have decided to use my so called “failures” to the benefit of my subscribers.
I know many of you are looking for a way to be successful online, and you are pushed from pillar to post, or product to product without really making any headway.
You are bombarded with the next great overnight riches product time and time again.
I know you are swamped and overloaded with information from other marketers telling you “THIS IS THE RIGHT WAY TO DO IT“ whilst another marketer is saying “NO, THIS IS THE WAY TO DO IT“.
I know this is happening to you, because it happened to me.
I remember getting email after email into my inbox, promoting the next big product, almost always costing me an arm and a leg.
God, I actually bought a few of them!
So did these big hyped up products help me?
Honestly, no.
But I wouldn’t blame the products, to be honest I couldn’t be bothered putting into practice what they taught. I was always looking for the easy way to make money online.
Presented with 200 dvds, reports, bonuses and 7 big ring binders filled with instructions was not my idea of an easy internet business!
I think I probably did watch a few of the dvds and maybe skimmed through the big fat ring binder folders, but to be honest I felt swamped with all the information.
So I don’t blame the person(s) selling the products, they provided me with great information and value, I just done nothing with it.
Not sure if you are like me, but I have bought many products and never used them, I have even bought ebooks and never even read them!
Personally I am better working with bite sized information, then I don’t feel like I have a huge task ahead of me.
When I feel like I have too much to do, I end up doing nothing.
That’s another great reason to have a to do list, you can break up big tasks into smaller pieces then complete them gradually.
My friend Randy once said to me “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time”, I just love Randy’s Ramblings, you can read more about him by clicking here.
That’s such a great saying and really true, when a task seems almost impossible, break it down and work your way through it.
I think many people being working online under false pretences.
They think they are getting a mouse but end up with an elephant!
That’s why people jump from product to product, thinking the next one will be the “big one” that brings them overnight riches.
They buy a product, realize it takes a bit more effort than they had hoped so they ditch that idea and look for another way, then they repeat this process over and over again, whilst their bank balance is dwindling and never increasing.
I think we all know by now that it’s time to stop chasing these fast, overnight fortune dreams. So with this in mind, it’s time for you to start treating your online business like a REAL BUSINESS.
It’s time for you to make a conscious decision to stop chasing these dream profits.
Let me ask you this…
If I could tell you that in 1 years time, you could be:
Earning a steady income online
Have more time to spend with your family / Friends
Basically be doing anything you wanted!
Would that be something that would appeal to you?
Now it could be 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, I don’t know when you will personally become a success online.
But what I do know is that ONLY YOU can take the steps necessary to be a success.
The first step is to make the decision to stop believing the hype.
Running a successful business online will:
Take time.
Take some work.
Take a heartfelt commitment from you.
Once you let go of the dream that you can be a millionaire overnight, you can breath a big fat sigh of relief, and get started on the real way to make money online.
Now you will be able to see clearly.
Your time will be completely focused on your main goal, to achieve the success you desire.
Instead of chasing overnight success, you can devise a realistic target to achieve your goals.
I have set myself a target of 1 year.
You might be thinking ONE WHOLE YEAR THAT’S AGES AWAY!
And yes, a year is a long time, but if I achieve the success I desire in one year’s time I will be one happy bunny I can assure you!
Now it might only take me 6 months who knows!
But at least I have set a goal.
I have given myself a year so that I don’t feel under pressure and I have plenty of time to implement everything I need to make my business a success.
I am not saying you have to set that same target, you know yourself better than I do!
But what I am saying is choose a realistic goal, don’t choose to try and be a millionaire overnight (unless your play the lotto).
I know a lot of people don’t like setting goals and targets, but if you don’t then you having nothing to aim for, you will simply wander aimlessly through each day getting nothing done.
Try out a to do list, like I mentioned before.
You need to set yourself mini daily targets or tasks and complete them.
If you want to own a successful online business and be your own boss THEN YOU HAVE TO BOSS YOURSELF!
No one else is going to tell you to get things done, you have to tell yourself.
That’s why many people can’t be a success online, they need a boss to tell them to do “stuff” or they would never do it.
You need to become self disciplined and make sure you get things done.
I hope this blog posts stirs something up inside you, I hope it makes you realize it’s time you took action, I hope you get a great big fire burning in your belly and kick start your online business today!
One last thing…
Please feel free to leave any comments you may have below, I really do value your opinion and love knowing how your online business ventures are coming along!
Take Care, Sally
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Twitter: ronbarrett
says:
Hey Sally!!
Great info…although I am not working from home 100% of the time yet, I can attest for how difficult it can be to discipline yourself and ‘do’ your work. There are way too many distractions. Like having to put together that tada list.
I am working towards working from home full time, but until I know that there will be enough cash coming in to pay the expenses each month, I will still be ‘workin for the man’.
Keep up the good work!
Ron
Twitter: adwello
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I think you have it in one, Ron (and Sally!) – most people simply lack direction. If there’s no boss standing over you how can you know what to do, and who’s to know if you slink into chocolate digestives mode and watch funny youtube videos? And so the time passes.. You must strive to do the things you really love in life, and few people are going to find the demands of internet marketing very rewarding, whereas the day job gives a sense of satisfaction. Building a steady second income in the spare bedroom during one’s spare hours is probably most people’s ideal option but even then, who wants to be replying to emails after a full day’s work? Still, for the lucky few who automate their IM biz to a couple of hours a week, there’s a world out there for the exploring! Or you could just creep back into a day job now you’ve got the time again!

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Love your blog, Sally. Everything you say is so true. I can really identify with the forgotten shopping list when I get to the store.
I already have a list I use everyday it keeps me focused I have a set of tasks I must do evryday like checking emails, post comments on blogs, write a new article and a few other things.
Aaron
Never a truer word spoken, the info you have given in this blog should be invaluable to every one reading it.
information over load is one of the biggest dangers to success on line, along with being distracted by the many events going on around you in the house. But your to do list should keep you on track to achieve your daily goal, and achieving those goals should ultimately in future bring you your long term goal.
I for one will be following this advice, from you. Kepp up the good work Sally.
Charlie
Hi Sally, great to hear you are getting your act together and hope that there may be some way that I can be allowed to mirror you. I admit that what you have written fits exactly what I have have experienced over the past 4 years and still am, to a large extent looking for the pot of gold, not 7 figure wise but I would settle for 4 digits so that I could target 5 next year. I am fed up to the backteeth with the hours that I am wasting every day on email, yesterday I dumped 1500 messages into my rubbish bin and still have many hundreds to go.
Good luck to you Sally, I sincerely hope that you make it fairly rapidly. Its great to hear from you again, don’t forget what I offered in my last email to you, glad to help you in any way that I can.
kind regards
Leslie Barnes
South Australia
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hi Ron, thanks for your comment, if you “to do list” is too big, try a mind map, it’s much better for breaking down large tasks, I will discuss this in a later post. By the way I loved your animated ico, you will see I have it now!
Hi Jim, thank you for commenting, I don’t think it would be a good idea for both of us to go shopping!
Hi Aaron, sounds like your on the road to success, keep up the good work.
Hello Charlie, great point made if you follow your own advice you should be sure to make a decent living online.
G’day Leslie, I think saying 4 digits a month means you have set your first goal! Don’t be afraid to unsub from all those emails that are keeping you from more productive work. I will be contacting you to take you up on your offer, thank you.
Sally
Twitter: RandysIMRambles
says:
Hi Sally ,
Great post – crikey , you can Ramble as bad as me…lol (but it did keep me reading, and that’s a key)
As for lists:
I actually still use pen and paper for mine, – cos if I had them online or on my desktop – I would lose where I put them!!!
And in terms of the person with too much on their list,
I have a ‘Now’ list for today, and then several other bits of paper with a ‘this week/month’ list and a ‘long term list’
That way I can work through the ‘now’ list and then take a look at the others and tackle something from them as and when I’ve done the immediate ones.
Hope that helps
Looking forward to seeing your next post.
(Oh – and Thanks for the mention)
Warm Regards
Randy
http://www.RandolfSmith.com
Hi Sally
What a refreshing change, a successful marketer thats not afraid to admit that it’s not as easy as people make out to run an online business.
Yes you can make it happen but success doesn’t come without a lot of hard work as we all know.
Only focussing on one project at a time and only buying what I need for that project is what I try and do and I always start with the biggest job on my to do list first every day – otherwise I found I’d keep putting it off for another day.
Thanks for the great post Sally and keep them coming.
Dawn Kay
Hi Sally,
I found your blog so true,I have been trying to get an internet business up and running for at least 18 months.I am of retirement age and only seek a reasonable return (4 digits would be fine initially) to give me a much better standard of living as I used to enjoy previously.
During this time I have invested in an expensive course plus paid more money to other people with fool proof schemes and as you say we end up with complete information overload and totally forget what we are originally trying to achieve.
So far my money has all been going out and not coming in and like many of us we don’t have a bottomless pit!!
Reading your comments has been a “WAKE UP CALL FOR ME”. I also have two other web sites which I am trying to set up.
When one attends these courses and workshops they always say you don’t need to be computor literate and any one who can cut and paste and can follow simple instructions can succeed. However one still needs to understand some of the programs such as FTP and Marketers Choice etc.
Considering I have been in sales and marketing all my life and run successful businesses in the past, though not in internet marketing I must admit this one has been challeging but in the past I never knew when to quit! and I intend to win this one.
Once again Sally thank you for the kick up my butt you made me realise that I am not the only one who faces these problems as a Newby. I will start today with a new focus.
My very best regards
BARRY
Twitter: daiarian
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Sally,
Congratulations for getting back on the bike you will surely benefit from the experiences.
One point I would like to add to the comments is if someone is a complete new starter like myself log your progress in detail especially noting sources of support. Periodically review what has been done and inevitably you will find a note to remind you to carry out a task that wasn’t followed up. Also by referring to the log, future ventures will be completed more quickly and easily.
Regards
wow Neo-Freudian Psychology 101
You’re so right. People can’t do things on their own steam. Well done for illustrating this, it definitely is a real obstacle to success.
Like I should be using my time adding my site to directories today. Probably isn’t going to happen! lol
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hey Randy, I use a pen and paper too, I will take your rambling comment as a compliment lol, thanks for your comment.
Hi Dawn, thanks your comment, starting with biggest task is a good idea, people do tend to put them off meaning they don’t get done.
Hey Barry, so you would also be happy with a four figure sum every month, seems most people would be, glad people are not aiming for the overnight millionaire! I think you should choose one business and focus on getting it up, running and making a profit before you start any other businesses.
Hello Daiarian, been a long time since I was on a bike, I do have an exercise bike that doubles as a coat hanger though lol. Great comment, people should review their progress and like you said, catch any tasks you may have missed.
Sally
hi sally,
great info, like most others it mirrors me perfectly, I must admit I went a bit silly over christmas and bought quite a few foolproof guides and next big things and now the cupboard is bare, so I really need to get money coming in instead of flowing out,
as I said in my last post,I work full time and it is hard to get things done, I come home from work with a list of things to do that I have thought of during the day, then I get on the computer and my broadband connection( I live out in the sticks) is so slow I end up with nothing done:
But I will get there,
as they say these things are sent to try us:
Well done Sally for getting back in the flow
all the best
Kevin x
Twitter: donaldmacleod1
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Hi Sally, This is the second time writing this. Computer crashed 2 mins ago.Anyway, you are probably right with your latest blog.I have been trying for 10 years to make a living on the Internet to no avail. I will keep on trying. I spent Hundreds of pounds last year buying products and then leaving them to collect dust.
I was made bankrupt 2 months ago. I had a pub and gave up, losing money. Since then I haven’t done enough on my computer with the amount of spare I had.
Last week changed that. I decided, less telly, was in the shed for hours at a time. I had purchased an item and it took me forecer to edit it. What took this guy to edit it, less than an hour, took me weeks.
I can now say, that tonight that item is on e bay.I am getting used to using HTML editor.Some folk want a boss, they are the boss. Sure, working from home can be a pain as well as a advantage. My wife is wondering what I get up to in my shed(“Office”)but she accepts that is where I will be and it keeps me out of the pub.
I am now hoping I get an e mail saying I have sold a product.
Good luck everybody, I cannot wait to make my first 100 quid.
Donald
Hi Sally,
I always look to you for my own inspiration.
Thanks for sharing this great post. It’s something that reminds me to always push forward myself in my own ventures.
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hello Kevin, yes I can understand why you done that, after spending so much at Christmas you have to try and find a way to bring some money in. It must be very hard to work with such a slow connection, I don’t know how you cope but these things are sent to try us.
Hi Donald, your comment made me laugh, I think maybe your wife thinks it’s better not to know what your doing in the shed! Hope 2010 is the year you make progress with an online income, remember, God loves a trier.
Hey Eruwan, thanks for your comment, I hope you keep pushing forward, onwards and upwards as they say.
Sally
Hi Sally.
I am glad to tell you, that the regard you are obviously held in, by your peers, and your students, does not support any suggetion of you being a failure.To fail doesn’t make a person a failure;to quit does. Just because you may fail,does not mean you are a failure, You are only a faiure when you quit. Are you a Quitter?
Of course not.
I am following your advice, I am steadily unsubscribing to the many lists I find myself on. I am trying to formulate a plan, and I will be seeking your advice on how to make progress with it when completed.
Looking foeward to your next post.
Best regards. Dave Verity
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hi Dave, thank you for the kind comment, sometimes I wish I could quit smoking ha ha. I am glad you are deciding on a plan of action, no direction is equal to no profits, so you are on the right path now, Sally
Twitter: kats59
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Very true words today. I know I suffer from information overload and from looking at “all that glitters…” Show me a flashy sales page and, if I don’t watch myself, I’ll be drooling over it for 30-45 minutes.
I’m going to try making myself a list. Couldn’t hurt and very possibly could be what “makes me.” Keep up the good work, Sally, and keep giving us these valuable tips.
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hi Kathy,
Information overload is not just a newbie killer, we all suffer from it, just when you think you are safe from it, it grabs hold of you again.
You make sure you do that list, and stick to it, I promise you will see massive results.
Thank you for your comment, Sally
Thanks once again Sally for you elaborate and always precise info.We just have too much information overload and well each information promises to add a magic touch
that will skyrocket our online businesses to huge unlimited success in just days of starting out.But as usual most is just worthless and have the huge disadvantage of taking one of course.I guess a to do list is worth all the trouble.
Twitter: sallyneill
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Hi Ralf,
Yeah I don’t half go on a bit don’t I ha ha.
I hope your online ventures are coming along smoothly and you take massive action each and every day to ensure you get to where you want to be.
There is no secret to making money online, it’s simple, just take action.
Sally