Sally Neill 2010
It’s the 4th of June 2010, 3.06 am and I am shaking like a leaf.
I am live on the Marketing With Alex coaching call with Alex Jeffreys and my fellow students as I type this blog post and I am not going to bed until I finish it…
Brocha Weiss brought up the subject of her cold mailing list, if she thinks her mailing list is cold, she has not seen mine!
I sent a message through the chat box to Alex, saying:
Alex this is really helping me as my list is cold cold cold right now, glad Brocha brought this up, have some great ideas on how to improve my emails now Sally 
Alex replied:
get on phone now …
I actually felt sick when I read it, because I knew I would have to speak live again, which I hate to do.
I know I need to face these fears in order to become a success online but it’s really tough.
A few weeks of coaching does not transform you into a new person, all your old fears still remain.
Anyway I forced myself to put my hand up on the chat box and waited to speak to Alex Jeffreys.
This time I didn’t wait long, I think Alex knew he had to get me live on the call fast before I put my hand down again!
On the call I described how I disappeared from the Internet Marketing Scene for over a year after my eBay eBook business went bust when eBay banned digital downloads.
When I had my eBay ebook business I had built a mailing list of just under 10,000 subscribers.
I was earning around $2000-$4000 monthly from working online, so anyone that thinks it can’t be done is wrong, I am living proof that it can.
But build a business on shaky foundations like I did and you will end up like me, with no business.
Back in my ebay selling days my mailing list was really responsive and warm.
Anytime I sent out an email I had a high open and click through rate but after a year away my list had dropped down to around 7,000 and my open and click through rates are way down to a pitiful 3%.
I guess that just proves the point that list size does not matter.
It’s how responsive your list is, and frankly mine isn’t.
The rule of a dollar every month for each subscriber means I should be earning $7000 a month and clearly I am making no where near that.
Over the past few weeks I have watched my fellow students post in the student forum their detailed plans mapping out their online career.
I have never made a post in that section of the forum because I don’t have a plan.
Then the other day I read a blog post on Darren’s blog, he asked everyone to post their perfect lifestyle.
My comment was:
Hey Darren, that’s so weird I ordered the 4 hr work week audio book from Amazon this morning!
My ideal life….hmmmm……
That’s a tough one, and I will be completely honest, right now I do not know what my perfect lifestyle would be.
I have never been a money orientated person, money is not the be all and end all for me, nor are material things.
I guess just to see my family happy and comfortable would be ideal for me.
I am aware I need to know where I want to be, before I can take the steps to get there, just need to figure out what I really really REALLY want.
Sally x
So you can see, I was wandering along with no real direction.
I was very aware I had no direction, I just didn’t know what to do about it.
Back to the call….
So I went on the coaching call and Alex asked me a few questions, and I told him how my list was cold and unresponsive and it was like he was reading my mind.
Alex told me to start all over again, I think I knew that’s what I needed to do, I just needed Alex to tell me I should do it.
That’s one reason I need a mentor I guess, because I need someone to tell me what to do right now.
I am not ashamed to admit I need help right now.
So I am starting afresh.
Like Alex told me it’s Sally Neill 2o10.
Not Sally from Sallys-Ebooks and the good old days of Ebay Ebook selling.
A fresh new start, with a new direction.
Clinging on to a successful past has done me more harm than good, I can finally see that.
I have been chasing the same success I had, but times have changed and I need to change with them in order to find new success online.
The days of selling on ebay taught me a lot and I am truly grateful for those experiences, I made a lot of money from that business and I helped lots of other people make money too.
Plus it took me on a path that let me meet Alex Jeffeys, and for that I shall be eternally grateful.
But it’s gone now and I need to let go of the past.
I need to look forward and not back.
So what does 2010 hold for me?
God only knows!
I honestly don’t know and it’s kinda scary.
But I am also relieved in a way.
The dead weight of my previous business has been lifted from round my neck.
It’s no longer holding me back, I AM FREE.
The coaching has been running for several weeks now and FINALLY I KNOW WHERE I AM HEADED.
Took me long enough, but I got there in the end.
2010 is going to be a magical year.
In fact it’s going to be a magical year not just for me, but for my fellow students too.
I can see so many students progressing at such a fast pace it’s frightening.
Everyone is feeding off each other.
Driving each other forward.
Willing each other to succeed.
I can honestly say I have never been a part of anything like this before.
It’s all new to me, it’s weird to actually trust people online again after seeing so much dishonesty in my journey online so far.
Last time around I done everything by myself.
This time I have a great coach and mentor in Alex Jeffreys and I have the best support anyone could ask for in the form of my fellow students.
It’s now 3.45am, I am tired, but happy and going to bed.
Tomorrow I can start to put my plans into motion…
Goodnight everyone, Sally
ps. Can I just say thank you to Janet Chandler and Mirko Gosch for the kind comments they made whilst I was speaking, was really sweet of you both, thank you so very much.
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Twitter: darrenlcarter
says:
Wow talk about an inspirational post! I can feel the weight that has been lifted. Wish I could have been there on the live call.
Your ebay business sounds like it was a good learning experience. I think now that you’re past it you’ll really be able to distance yourself from it and see everything there is to learn from it.
And thanks for all the support you’ve given! You’ve been a big part of making this such a good community to be a part of.
Cant wait to see where Sally 2010 goes!
Peace,
Darren L Carter
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Darren, yes you are spot on, it was a HUGE relief.
I think 2010 will be a good year for you too, but we better get our skates on… half the year has passed already!
Sally
Sally, how do you get the comments and retweet icons for each post?
Thanks
Abdul
.-= Abdul Rehman Mayet´s last blog ..Hello World =-.
What you say in the post is really true: one doesn’t want old successes to dominate one’s thinking, especially when times have changed. At the same time one’s knowledge is integrated with those past successes – it’s not something that one can ever forget completely, even when a situation requires greater and greater adaptability.
Part of me suspects that patience as a virtue really needs to be preached to those trying to make the most out of the Internet. The biggest, most difficult goals – things like changing people’s minds – may not have visible results until the world is literally a different place. The things we do that create measurable success are sometimes really limited, which is why we can – and have to – change gears.
.-= ashok´s last blog ..Should I Go See “The A-Team?” =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Ashok, thanks for your comment.
I think my past experience of ebay was good for me, after all it’s how I learned how to build a list, set up a sales page, digital downloads, edit html files and so on.
But yes, I don’t want to my old success to dominate my thoughts that’s so true.
Like you said it’s time to shift gears, moving on forward and getting out of reverse.
Sally
Twitter: MirkoGosch
says:
Hey Sally,
I just knew that you were going to write about last night´s live call with Alex immediately after the live session would have ended. Alex switched on the light in the darkness that was still surrounding you, wasn´t he?
He perfectly pointed out that a blind man could see your strength in writing blog posts and that you were giving lots and lots of value to our community by all your honest comments and of course by your blog posts themselves. And he was right that you needed a fresh start also to let go of your past experiences (which obviously were not all bad, quite impressive indeed what you had done with your ebooks before) and start a fresh list building.
I am really proud of you that you swallowed the frog, overcame your -unnecessary- fears to talk to Alex live while everyone was listening and were hence rewarded with a new direction. Yehaw!
You rock, Sally. Keep on rocking, you´ll definitely make it, no doubt about it.
Have an awesome weekend and let´s stay in close contact.
Mirko
.-= Mirko Gosch´s last blog ..The Golden Foundation Of Keyword Research 2 =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Mirko,
As you know Alex Jeffreys kinda inspires you to do great things and get over your fears.
It’s funny I remember him being scared to talk way back when he started out, now you can’t shut him up!
Being honest Mirko, you have come forward so much, can see a big change in you from just a few weeks ago, and you have carved open a new path for yourself, well done, Sally
Hi Sally
I have’nt listened to the webnar yet but will look forward to it
Fair play to you for your honesty. It is always difficult to let go of the past, and you are right to look at it as a useful part of your learning experience toward lasting success.
I was watching a programme by Stephen Hawkins on the universe, and he said if it was’nt for the fact that there were imperfections or mistakes in the spread of gravity we could not extist.In other words we are only here because of a mistake in the first place!!
Your tecnical skills are in place as well so you really are set to go go go
Mirko is right you have a great strenght in writing blogs.
I also hold my hand up to looking backwards to much, but like you I know all that is going to change.
All the best
Vince
.-= Vince Audritt´s last blog ..2 B or not 2 B =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Vince, the webinar is truly an eye opener, especially if you have been trying to make it online and got no where fast.
Well I am glad I have done my part for the universe by the mistakes I made, god knows there are plenty of them!
I hope you look forward now, and create a much better future for yourself.
Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment, it’s appreciated, Sally
Wow talk about taking action & i love your new
sense of direction, its not sallys eBooks its now
sally 2010 and that simple mind shift can mean
the world of diffrence right!
You’ve seen some previous success so now its
time to create a new plan & grow FAST!
Remember you have to shift focus
product creation
list building
email marketing
etc …
Im really proud of you sally, you wont give
up and so you shouldn’t …
To your 2010 & future success
alex
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Alex aka Mr Wonderful.
I am sure every student, past and present would agree you are a fabulous mentor, we all feel so grateful to have the chance to learn from you.
I think you have the midas touch, everything you do turns to gold and seems to come hand in hand with massive success.
Ebay was how it all started for me and you as well, but you made me see it’s time to begin a new online career and leave the past behind.
Everything you have taught me so far has been invaluable and is taking me closer and closer to the success I desire, not just money but providing value and help to others.
Thanks for leaving a comment, you really are the mentor who cares.
Sally
Twitter: givesvalue
says:
Hi Sally,
What a post! What a lady!
You have inspired so many others in our MWA3.0 group and now after a “little hiccup” you have let it all hang out.
There will be no stopping you now Sally
Way to go!!
.-= Peter Beckenham´s last blog ..Internet Marketing….Is it for REAL? =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Peter, well if my post was good, your press relief was amazing!
Cant believe you have the newspapers wanting to interview you, well done, that’s unreal!
My online career is filled with hiccups, but I just keep curing them, bring on the hiccups they don’t scare me no more.
Thanks for commenting Peter, your a lovely guy who deserves success, Sally
Twitter: andyraybould
says:
Hi Sally
Good luck.
I too have been wandering around trying to make a go of things.
I now have two good people helping me. I made the mistake of trying to go it alone.
Invest in yourself and things will change.
I ahve an article on my blog about why a mentor is a good idea. It’s at: http://rampublisherslimited.com/internetmarketing/business-advice-and-why-a-mentor-is-a-good-idea/
Here’s to our success…stay positive and you will succeed.
.-= Andy Raybould´s last blog ..Brand New One Straight-Line Cycler with a twist! =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Andy, I think it really does make a big difference when you have someone to help and guide you, just unfortunate that it usually costs an arm and a leg!
I shall visit your blog and have a little peek around.
Good luck with your own personal online ventures, Sally
Twitter: ronbarrett
says:
Sally,
It’s interesting that you write about the unresponsiveness of your list… I just published a post on my blog dealing with that same subject and what I think is causing it.
I love the fact that you are realizing what could possibly be going on and how you are going to fix it. We are thinking alike here since I have done the same thing. Unfortunately, it’s going to take a lot of hard work.
Here’s a quote from a report that I stumbled across just recently
“Are you willing to give up a few non-essentials to grow you and your business… If you are not willing to make some sacrifices, you do not need to be in business.”
There is more ‘eye-opening’ content in that report and it IS pretty blunt, but it explains the mind set of a LOT of people coming online and thinking they can find the magic button.
Anyway…always great stuff from you…keep it up and let me know if I can be of any help.
Have a FANTABULOUS weekend!
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Ron,
Great minds think alike and you made some great points.
I just wanted to share the fact they we don’t all have a mailing list that pumps out cash on auto-pilot.
So many people have been told “the money is in the list” and yes it is, if you communicate correctly with them and give value.
Thanks for your offer of help, will be sure to take advantage of it, Sally
Twitter: alexiskenne
says:
Sally You’re really special.
Your honesty is mind blowing.There are not many internet marketers like you. I remember the days of Easy Profits Auctions you helped me a lot. I had some time off after EPA as well infortunately i could not afford the new Alex Jeffreys Coaching program.Trust me I’ll stay in touch.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Alex,
Aww thank you, that’s really nice of you to say.
EPA was brilliant, just joining that membership was a big turning point for me, helped me create my first product that actually made me a ton of cash.
I think many people are in a catch 22, want a mentor but can’t afford to pay for one.
Don’t worry I will try to pass on as much information as I can for free.
Only thing is, information is not always enough, I for one need a mentor to push me, so hopefully I can help push others towards finding their own success too.
Sally
Twitter: LynneLee
says:
I’m one of your unresponsive email list
I read your email today and it sparked something in me.
I too have been on an internet journey and what I do online is changing as I discover what I enjoy doing and match it up with what people want and are willing to pay for.
I agree with Alex a “simple mind shift can mean
the world of difference”
Glad you are getting clear on what your business looks like and want you want from it. I’ll be watching your progress with interest…
.-= Lynne Lee´s last blog ..SEO Mistake: Focusing Almost Entirely On Keywords And Backlinks =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Lynne, well thanks for being unresponsive ha ha.
Yes my mind seems to be shifting so much lately, being online so long I have learned a lot of bad habits, and believed some things that are just plain not true.
Right now I am trying to unlearn the bad and replace it with the good.
Thank you for responding and leaving a comment, Sally
Twitter: LynneLee
says:
I just spotted the opportunity to put in my twitter user name – what is the plugin that allows that?
Care to share about the program with Alex, what it is and what it’s giving you?
.-= Lynne Lee´s last blog ..SEO Mistake: Focusing Almost Entirely On Keywords And Backlinks =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Lynne,
The plugin is called “twitterlink” very nifty little plugin I like it.
Shall be posting many updates on my coaching and what I am learning so stay tuned, Sally
Twitter: RandysIMRambles
says:
Hi Sally,
You keep moving forward – well done you!
I admit I was surprised at your open rate…. BUT – I did want to mention that you might want to check how many of your list use gmail and similar email clients?
The reason for mentioning is that on html emails a tiny 1 pixel by 1 pixel graphic is inserted to track open rates… and in gmail and some others – there is a specific link in the top of the email that most people miss!!
It asks if you would like to display graphics from this sender!
Well when you know there aren’t any graphics – it’s easy to overlook it and not approve the display…
Hence the autoresponder is unaware that the email has been opened as the graphic link was not displayed!
So it could be that you actually have a far higher open rate than you thought
So many people are totally unaware of these little things and how they can impact our business….
I only know due to being a partner in http://www.WizardResponderPro.com and the fact that Pete (my techy Partner) explained it all to me…lol
So with the quality of replies you’re getting here, and the fact that a lot of people may not have clicked to display images – it could be that things are never as bad as they seem
Keep yer chin up Gal
Randy
http://www.RandolfSmith.com
.-= Randy Smith´s last blog ..Why I Went Commando Yesterday!…NO Not that! =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Hey Randy
I think because I tend to a mass broadcast to all of the people on my list it makes a difference.
If I mail each list separately the open rates are not as low.
I had heard the open rate stats are not a 100% honest reflection, so I don’t treat them as gospel.
Thanks for popping by, see you in the forum.
Sally
Twitter: traceyedwards
says:
Hey Sally,
Thought I’d drop by and say hello. I like the new direction you’ve taken – good luck with it all.
After eBay I took a new direction too and mainly focus on SEO and promoting Amazon products. Much more lucrative.
Had the baby – she’s adorable (am I biased?)
Well, gotta go and feed the bub before I head off to bed.
Take care
Tracey
.-= Tracey´s last blog ..Auto Article Profits Review Part 2 =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Tracey,
CONGRATULATIONS!
I bet she is gorgeous!!!
I think Jade is gorgeous too, so perhaps we are a little biased.
After ebay changed the rules again I did notice you were off planning a new way to make money online and find success, hope it works out for you, you are very talented.
Give your bambino a big hug from me and Jade, Sally
Sally Neill, What a person……Wherever you go , you can see her adding huge values to everybody’s blog, articles etc. Passing encouraging and positive comments, giving advice and helping us to be successful and on track to prosperity.
For me you are a role model, I try to follow you as much I can.
According to Alex, “we are in training and building ourselves each day”. Everybody needs money and I am sure we all would get it. We all have support of Alex, he not only understands the ticks of the trade, he also understands our emotional stages and I am sure we all will be successful with his help.
We all have somehow successful business or jobs or a way of earning money but this time we have to change our focus to concentrate on new market, new ways of making money. It is tough journey, start earning from on dollar to match our current earning and move forward but this is what we want….
You are such a nice person everybody would love to be with you on your journey to success. Just let me know whenever you need my assistance.
Take care
Nad
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Nad,
Thanks so much for your comment, it made me smile.
You are right when you say Alex understands what we need business wise and emotionally, it’s because he has been there and done that.
He can relate so well to people because he actually walked the path they are on.
Your comment was really great Nad, thanks for leaving it, hopping over to your blog now.
Speak soon, Sally
Twitter: jeansarauer
says:
Here’s to Sally Neill 2010!
That is some of the best advice I’ve ever heard, by the way. How often do we cling to something from the past and try to shape our present and our future from something that no longer exists? Too often!
Money is a lousy motivator for me too, Sally, so I can relate to so much of what you write. For me, getting super clear on my personal values made all the difference. My top values (in no order here) are creativity, health, connecting with others, freedom, simplicity, and gratitude and now I structure business and personal goals in a way that honors those values. This means my business plan looks a heck of a lot different than some other folks (slower, community-based growth, fewer but more creative posts, a schedule that allows plenty of time with family and friends, enjoying the season, etc.).
Thank you for sharing this experience and letting us get an inside look at your own transformation!
.-= Jean Sarauer´s last blog ..6 Things That Get Easier About Blogging if You Just Keep Going =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Jean, how are ya?
I am terrible for clinging on to the past and not letting go!
Alex would say you have a fabulous business model, start off small and think big, he drums that into us everyday.
Too many people expect too much too soon.
Slow and steady wins the race, I bet in just a years time you business will be thriving and highly profitable, would even bet my house on it.
Sally
Sally,
Life can be a real nightmare at times and it can be hard to push through and move on up but once you do, you find it’s a really good feel to have come through the other and it wasn’t as bad as you thought it was going to be.
Hugh
.-= Hugh Fraser´s last blog ..Making the move to apple =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Hugh, hope your well
I know it’s really tough sometimes, god I have even cried because of this online biz stuff.
But keep at it, don’t give up, never give up until you get exactly what you want.
Everyone can achieve their dreams online, if they work hard and take action each single day.
Sally
Great post Sally.
It is easy to get stuck in the past, but glad to hear you are starting afresh and ready to rock and indeed roll in 2010.
Alex is a great guy, you are in good hands.
Dean
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Dean,
Yes Alex is a brilliant coach and mentor, you would be hard pushed to find a bad word said about him anywhere.
You too are a great guy, each time you post one of your short but punchy videos I learn something new immediately.
Keep meaning to add your blog to my favourites list in the sidebar, because it’s one I visit regularly and get true value from.
Sally
I too am like Alex above. I was also unable to afford Alex Jefferey’s coaching and will gladly become a responsive member of your list as I believe you have valuable info to send to your list.
I was medically boarded about 2 years ago with a disabling arthritis and am hoping to set up an online business to supplement my disability pension.
Best wishes for your future endeavors.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Peter,
Yes, like I said, it’s a catch 22, need a mentor but can’t afford one.
The funny thing is, that the cost will be offset if you get the mentor and apply their teachings.
But with so many scams online, people seem to spend their money on the right types of products.
Do not let your health problems hamper your chances of success, it will be tougher for you more than others, but I still believe you can do it, take care, Sally
I feel sadened that I may be adding to your delema, I am one of the unopeners. My problem is not with you or your emails it is just a shortness of time. I sometimes wake up and wonder which time zone I am in.I get about quite a bit but when I am at home there is nothing better than catching up with my emails.over the years I have gained alot from your posts, not always direcrly and in the way you intended but selling is selling and marketing is marketing and it doesn’t matter if you are selling paper clips or $10,000 comercial diving courses. Keep going Sally, not only for me but for the thousands of other people coming behind. Most of all for yourself,you’r good at what you do, take pride and pleasure from it and if you hit a lean patch you will come out of it a much wiser person.
Kind regards Dave Craig
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi David,
Please don’t feel sad, it’s my own fault to be honest.
I was the one who disappeared for over a year, can’t expect people on my list to remember me after no contact with them.
You made an excellent point, Alex often tells us not to look at what a person is providing or selling, look at how they do it and mimic them.
I will keep pushing myself forward, I am determined to crack this money making stuff and show people exactly how to do the same.
Great comment, speak soon Sally
Twitter: jayceeonline
says:
Sally, Sally, Sally
You’ve got so much positive energy right now I think you could light up a whole city!
When I heeard you speak on the live call last night, I must admit I was shocked to find out that you didn’t recognise just how good you are.
So I had to type something in quickly, and ask Alex to convey that message back to you. You are great. You have so much knowledge, wit, sharp, to-the-point business acumen…
You may need to revamp your marketing to new people in new times, but I have no doubts your new successes will far surpass the old.
You go, girl, all the way. And leave a hefty trail of breadcrumbs from the chunk of bread you carry, to signpost those who follow in your footsteps.
You got ‘IT’!
Jaycee
.-= Jaycee´s last blog ..This Is Your Life! =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Jaycee, the traffic sat nav ha ha.
I think we all have self doubt and fears.
I never realized I was so transparent on the call, I guess my voice gave away my true feelings.
Frustration seems to be my no1 problem, but Alex is helping me overcome that.
Your little comment on the call, was very inspiring to me, a little act of kindness that boosted my confidence greatly.
Your a wonderful person, and I not just saying that, I have a lot of time for you, and hope success follows you too.
Speak soon, Sally
Twitter: tnsblog
says:
Hey Lady,
Super awesome talk. This is really awesome piece of advice. To be honest when i not in the blogging business, that time money was that who motivates me, but now i really don’t care about money. Now i found passion in this field. Thanks for such a awesome post
~Dev
.-= Dev | Technshare´s last blog ..How To Professionally Conduct a Interview? =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Dev,
I am so happy you no longer chase the money, Alex tells us not to chase money, let money chase you.
The people chasing money have an air of desperation in everything they do, and people can sense it.
I am sure you will go much further now money is no longer controlling everything you do.
Sally
Twitter: jblack2012
says:
Great post Sally,
I had no idea about your beginnings on ebay as an e-book seller. Your experieces would be great topics for an ebook alone, such as “how to grow a list of 10,000 people from ebay in just a year.”
There is a goldmine in the things that you have gone through. Hope the last half of your 2010 is great.
Try to come up with creative subject lines for your emails. That will boost youropen rate.
-Joshua Black
The Underdog Millionaire
.-= Joshua Black | The Underdog Millionaire´s last blog ..Copywriting Critique of the World’s Worst Salesman =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Joshua,
Yeah, I used to be well known for my ebay stuff, now I guess I am well known for failing ha ha.
Nevermind, onwards and upwards as they say.
Never really thought about writing an ebook on list building, I guess because Ebay was the main method I used and you can use it anymore I didn’t think it would be of value to anyone now.
Good idea, I will be sure to test my subject lines and see if they boost the open rates.
Thanks Sally
Great post Sally and good luck in 2010!
Unfortunately for me too things have gone quiet on the income front. Had some good times and bad times.
Here’s hoping the second half of the year will be one of the good times!
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Alex,
Yes, here’s hoping the second half of the year brings lots of success.
Sounds like you need a more reliable source of income, up and down profits are no good.
Perhaps a change of direction could be really good for you too, Sally
Hi Sally,
I just noticed we have the same favorite blog list! Alex, Brandon, Jean, Mark, Mike, Sally & me. I want to thank you for the honor to be included on your list.
Also, add me to the above list that cannot afford Alex’s program. Which is the main reason I’m here. I want to learn everything I can through you
Impressive Ebay list & business, but I’m glad your in 2010!
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Hey Scott,
Yeah I stole it from yours, ha ha kidding.
Alex coaching was pricey, but well worth it for anyone who was lucky to access it.
I shall try to share as much as I possibly can with everyone, promise.
Sally
I will stay tuned since your site rocks
Hope you’re having a great weekend!
Scott
.-= Scott Barron´s last blog ..A Little Housekeeping Online =-.
Hi Sally
It’s really refreshing to hear someone talk openly about the doubts and problems they are experiencing in their marketing business. Kudos to you and I hope 2010 is a huge success for you.
Best wishes
Graham
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Graham,
Hows you?
Your Ultimate Footer Ad is great I love using it.
I just set it and let it do all the hard work for me now, fab little piece of software.
It’s funny to think back to when we met at that seminar, I remember running over to say hi to you and Tracy Repchuck didn’t look too amused as I inadvertently interrupted her, not a good way to act in front of the gurus oops!
Sally
Twitter: homebasedbuzz
says:
Hi Sally.
I agree with Randy, it’s not as bad as you may think. There are a lot of us from your past and present that’ved realise the value you bring to the table.
You’ve been a huge help and inspiration to us, and I for one see great things for you in 2010.
Go for it!
Rod
.-= Rod Saunders´s last blog ..Traffic- What’s Your Business Life Blood? =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Rod,
Thanks for popping over and leaving a comment, it means alot.
You are going to find success online this time, I just know it.
Keep working hard and it will pay off for you, make 2010 the year that it changes for you too.
Sally
Twitter: roonie_g
says:
Goodness Sally!
What can ya say after a post like that?
You have totally inspired me and now it makes me want to kick myself in the butt and get on it!
You are so lucky to be in Alex’s class! What an awesome guy he is!! What an awesome gal YOU ARE!!
I find myself wandering around a lot with no direction, but I think you have way more discipline and direction than me, girl.
Girlfriend, you rock! You are the ULTIMATE FEMALE INTERNET MARKETER!!
YAY!!
Lisa~
(My head is still spinning after this one!!)
.-= Lisa´s last blog ..Webmaster Tools, Index Files and New Friends =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Partner,
Glad my failure inspired you ha ha.
I should write an ebook on “what not to do online”.
Yeah Alex is amazing, love him to bits.
I only have discipline now, I never used to, what Alex is teaching us has helped me greatly.
It’s funny every time I have dealings with Alex, something great always comes of it, I owe a lot to him.
Hows your traffic comp coming along, hope your kicking a$$ or I will kick yours!
Speak soon, Sally
Hey Sally,
Great inspirational post!
Sally in all honesty, you have been a great encouragement to myself and many others.
You have had success in the past with eBay and you are in the process of reinventing yourself now.
You have found the strength to start over in IM.
I read your blog regularly and find many of the things I am experiencing now you have already been through.
Your ability to refocus and be so helpful to so many others will surely pay off.
You know eagles go through moulting season where everything looks like death. But once they come through that season they are stronger and more beautiful than they ever were before. They can reach heights that they never could previously.
Keep Soaring!
PJ
.-= PJ Bess´s last blog ..Got Traffic? Where do I get Traffic? =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey PJ, thanks for the lovely comment.
Loved the quote about the eagle, that’s so cool, I shall remember “keep soaring” it’s a nice way to think.
Hope your well, and not working too hard, we need a happy balance in order to keep going at such a fast pace.
Speak to your soon, Sally
Hi Sally
What a great post and thanks to Alex for retweeting it.
You see 5 minutes ago I was lying in bed feeling sorry for myself as I could feel the whole Alex MWA3.0 thing slipping away from me…I had begun to fall back into multi-tasking bad habits.
I am now up and once this is written I am off to our forum to add to the inspiration that you have given me.
The one thing I love about internet marketeters is that they always seem to know when to send the correct message for my needs…Sally you are one of those people…and I thank you for that.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Igor,
I didn’t know Alex retweeted it, very nice of him to do that, and thanks for letting me know.
I can understand you feeling sorry for yourself, before that call I was feeling a bit like myself.
Sometimes it’s just so overwhelming and you feel like there is too much to learn and put into practice.
Stick to planning everything and work through each task one at a time, remember do the big ugly elephant one FIRST.
Glad you have a bit of spring back in your step now, if you ever need a little moan, feel free to contact me, Sally
Hey Sally,
Its crazy sometime how a few moments change our thoughts, perceptions, and our lives. I feel that’s what’s happened to you and the call on Thursday will prove to be life changing.
Great stuff Sally. As Darren mentions, we are a great community and you are one of the key members to make it so effective.
Wish you and all on the community all the success.
Cheers!
Abizer
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Abizer,
Yeah we are very lucky to have such a community at our fingertips.
The call was really life changing for me, I feel much better now Alex gave me a little nudge in the right direction, Sally
Twitter: kathydobson
says:
Sally,
I love coming to your blog. You are so refreshingly honest. I would love to be in Alex Jeffrey’s class someday. I continue to hear great things about both him and his course.
Lord knows I need to build a bigger list. That must have been really hard to let go of your list after building it so big. I agree though…a fresh start…a new day and success right around the corner
Very inspirational post…thank you for that!
Kathy
.-= Kathy Dobson´s last blog ..Mass Outsource MasterMind Modules One and Two =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Kathy,
Just remember bigger is not better, quality not quantity is key with your list.
A new dawn, a new day, a new life etc etc, is that a song lol, Sally
Twitter: bryanmch
says:
Hey Sally,
I am one of your fans from the days gone by when you were on eBay. I must confess I did not respond to your previous post…not because they did not interest me but time always seem to get away I still have them in my inbox waiting to reply.
I do not earn a income working from home … would love to… but have a JOB.
Your post compelled me to make sure that I replied.
Look forward to your guidance and wisdom.
You are an inspiration Sally
Cheers
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Bryan,
An old ebayer are ya?
Cool, I loved my ebay days.
You can have a job until you start earning online, that’s what most people do at first, then once the money comes in regularly and steadily, you can PACK IT IN!
Stay tuned, I am going to get this money making thing sorted and share it with everyone, Sally
Twitter: MoniqueVanHooreweder
says:
Sally, I put this comment to let you know I’m at drafting my very first news letter to some local friends. I even wouldn’t know how to start.
Of course I could say: “Dear Frank and Peter,” and so on. I’m about certain you don’t read all your comments today. When succes bores you then you get the most I experienced. I just don’t understand why my private letters and also commun things on internet are never answered. Especially when I think over my writing at school that was not too bad.
.-= Monique´s last blog ..The impact of earth trembling on human’s mood =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Monique,
Well, with my cold list I am probably not in the right place right now to advise you.
But we are working on list building and relationship building soon, so as soon as I know some solid tips I will be happy to share them with you, Sally
Twitter: edwelch
says:
Sally,
Good luck with the relaunch. I know that it and you will be a success. Why? Because Alex is your mentor.
Ed.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Ed,
Thanks, Alex is a gem and a brilliant coach, I am learning so much from him, Sally
Twitter: mikeroosa
says:
Hey Sally,
Just keep working hard and it will all pay off. Follow your plan and before you know it, things will turn around.
.-= Mike Roosa´s last blog ..Been A Strange Week =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Mike,
Well now that I am finally working on a plan I think I am in a much better place, at least I know where I am headed, instead of just drifting along online with no real aim, Sally
Twitter: http://jonnybalfour.com
says:
hey sally, you really have an amazing blog here, and im getting so much from it. one question tho i bought ultimate footer ad like youve got and im having trouble installing it. im using the installation guide but the bit where it says upload the ultimate footer files to your host, im using filezilla, but where abouts do you upload it to.
thanks sally
jonny balfour
.-= jonny balfour´s last blog ..Jonny Balfour – DEAD? =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Jonny,
Email Graham, the guy who you bought it from, he is really friendly and helpful, will have you sorted in a jiffy!
I placed the code in my footer template if that helps you at all, Sally
Twitter: baileying
says:
Hey Sally,
Just wanted to say that I’m so proud of you and I’m so grateful for having a fellow student like you. Not only have you been such a great example for others to follow, working hard and putting things into action, but you’re constantly helping your fellow classmates aswell.
Thank you for all your support and help, which is encouraging me to reach new heights as Nathan says, you’re one in a million.
Big RESPECT! I know you’re gonna make it BIG real soon and can’t wait to see it happen
Bailey
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Bailey, my buddy
Thanks for your comment, it was lovely.
Where’s you comluv? Could have swore you had it before?
Yeah Nathan has a top saying, I am jealous of it lol.
We can grow big together I bet, let’s keep working hard, speak to you soon, Sally
Twitter: LeeEScott
says:
Hey Sally,
I thought I would drop by and say hello.
I must say you have really got it going on here at your blog.
A truely inspirational post. Before I enrolled on Alexs’ coaching course I also didn’t have any idea as to where I was heading, which direction to go, what to do next etc. But all that has changed and under the guidance of Alex I’m now moving forward.
The forum is really an amazing place to be and it’s great to see everyone helping each other with support and advice.
Good luck and I wish you success in your new direction.
2010 is going to be the year for us all.
Thanks,
Lee.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hiya Lee, thanks for popping over and saying hello.
I was the same as you, no direction, it’s horrible.
Keep moving forward and don’t look back just yet, then when you do, you will be astonished at just how much you have accomplished in such a short time.
Catch you soon, Sally
Twitter: Alexwhalley23
says:
Wow Sally 2010! You go girl. This was a really nice post to read and was really inspirational too!
So glad you have found your direction and are pumped for a stella year! I’m looking forward to sharing and growing with you Sally!
.-= Alex´s last blog ..The Ultimate Guide to Effective Blog Commenting =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Alex, how are ya?
Yeah bring it on, only half the year left but who cares right lol.
Speak to you soon, Sally
Hi Sally,
I read every email you send and value your information – we both suffered losses, you with ebay, myself with squidoo. We’re in the same boat….and we’ll row it
together – as you mentioned: “The more we can interact with each other, the more beneficial it will be for us both” – very true. I need all the help I can get –
so many online changes have taken place – but with your coaching from Alex and sharing the info with your subscribers, which is rare, this is the best help
we could wish for. Like I mentioned in a previous email, your heart is the size of the Titanic… and that is BIG!
I haven’t created the blog yet….I’m not sure what is holding me back, fear of failing again or thinking it’s a waste of time. Some times I think it’s a good idea and the next day, I think the opposite. I know this is crazy, and I realize that to move forward, I must create this blog. I can’t pin point exactly what I need help with – I would say almost everything….creating sites on squidoo is easy and for traffic I was advised to ping on technorati and various other sites. I received very poor instructions, later I learned that squidoo is basically used as an introduction guide to ‘tags’ on technorati, the blogosphere search engine. I really was naive back then! Especially with links – and this continues to confuse me. The technical stuff is confusing at times.
However, since I mentioned technorati…..take a peek at technorati.com/blogs/top100 – this is a list of the popular sites – sites you may want to affiliate with – you can obtain some ideas from this…I did.
As far as creating products to help your subscribers,
the video tutorials for the WordPress blogs – these videos couldn’t be more helpful – I know I would not have been able to do this without these instructions. And I also cannot thank you enough for creating
them.
You said: “Do you want me to create easy to follow guides to help you achieve your own success?” Of course! Who else would have created videos for their subscribers? Not too many – there are too many people online who do a lot of talking and no action. And they don’t reply to their emails, they hire others to do it for them. And often times, the hired help are not well trained and provide wrong advice. I’m convinced now that I’m on the right path ….with Sally’s blog.
Well, Sally, I’m very much grateful for finding you on this vast internet – and no doubt, I know we will work well together – and 2010 will be a good year for us.
Susan
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hi Susan,
Yes I think we both learned the lesson of don’t have all your eggs in the one basket!
I got a good response from my email, so I will create the reports and hopefully help lots of people.
Seems like we all suffer the same problems online, it’s high time we found a solution for us all.
Sally
Twitter: johnmcnally54
says:
Great post Sally,
You are worried about your direction, but have you ever thought that you might have already arrived? You sound happy and content to me, money isn’t your motivation, so maybe the life you have now is what you want? Just keep enjoying it.
John
.-= John McNally´s last blog ..Living to 100 =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey John,
I never really thought about it that way, good point and yeah maybe I have arrived.
I shall endeavor to keep enjoying my journey online, thank you for your comment, Sally
Twitter: Cliff_Truss
says:
Hi Sally,
I can feel the tension being released in this post!
…and relax
You really are a great and honest writer and you will definitely make it again. I don’t see any doubt about that.
I think Alex got it spot on with his advice to start again – he makes it look so easy doesn’t he?
Well done Sally – see you at George Brown’s summit in a couple of weeks.
Cliff
.-= Cliff Truss´s last blog ..Internet Marketing Basics =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Cliff,
Phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, yeah tension all gone now, for the moment!
I am really looking forward to George’s summit, will be so good to meet some fellow students, feel like I know them all so well already, meeting in person will be great.
See you then, Sally
Hi Sally I read your e mails.Like i read a lot of others.My biggest problem is lack of cash to pay for some one to mentor me in the fine art of making money on the Internet.Many people think when some one says this.Lack of money, they are lying.I wish it was this.The single biggest problem for most people is not the will to start.But once started they run out of money before they earn enough to pay the overhead.Thus in disappointment they throw away what they have spent in a gaping hole.I have run business of line.The price of an online business for 10,000 or 20,000 is cheap in comparison to offline.Where I invested 600,000 the last of my money in a business with good reputation.Nevertheless they went under took everything with them including my pension plan.No i am not whining but the only place I can make a come back is on the INTERNET.Much of the information offered is stale old stuff.It requires new thinking and new stuff.I have written several e books.”the source birth place of the Secret.” 279 pgs in the last rewrite.Most eBook writers today have limited grasp of language.I think.What you offer is good but there always has to upgrade.Most internet marketers don’t seem to know.By your words you live or die. Thanks keep your chin up obstacles are made to be overcome. God bless Bill Toebes
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Bill.
So much of working online seems to be a CATCH 22.
You need certain “things” but can’t afford them.
I want to outsource certain tasks, and need to do that to free up time, but can’t afford it, so I am in the same boat really.
Would love to read your ebook, send me a copy
God bless you too, keep trying and dont give up, Sally
Hi Sally,
Just stopping by to say hello to my friend in the UK. I can’t wait to read your next post! Have a great day
Scott
Scott Barron´s last blog…Was it Good for You
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Scott,
With a comluv link like that you know for sure I have to read it now, emotional blackmail! ha ha.
Sally
Twitter: anna_haller
says:
Wow Sally! I never knew you had that much success with your online business previously, that is awesome! I have no doubt that you will achieve that and much more because you are definitely on the right path.
I wish I would’ve caught that interactive session. I missed it because my computer was acting up, I lost audio and had to shut down my computer.
The pieces of the puzzle are all coming together for you and I can tell you feel great about it and will continue to do what you are doing because you are rocking it right now! You truly are an inspiration to us all and I enjoy reading about you and your posts, you are a great writer!
Rock on:)
Anna
.-= Anna Haller´s last blog ..Traffic Results For Alex Jeffreys Contest =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Anna,
Yes I have been round the block a bit!
Been there, done that, wore the tshirt, then lost the tshirt.
That call really helped me in so many ways, I am glad I spoke up and hope to hear your speaking sometime too.
Over the next few months the pieces are going to fall into place for everyone on the coaching, it’s an exciting time for us all.
Loved your latest blog post, I can see how much you have learned already just over the past four weeks, it’s one crazy ride!
Speak soon, Sally
Twitter: hiroadams
says:
Hi Sally,
As usual you are an inspiration. Everytime I feel down, I say to myself, “What is Sally up to?” And everytime I come to your blog I am inspired to carry on.
You are so right, letting go of the past is the key to moving forward, but easier said than done!
Yes I am still struggling, because I do not have direction, I am still looking for that.
But I also know not to give up. So everytime I need a boost I will be popping by here, looking for inspiration.
Keep at gal.
Hiro
.-= Hiro Adams´s last blog ..The Agony of Article Writing =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Hiro,
That’s such a lovely comment thank you.
I hope you find your direction soon, it will just come to you one day.
I struggled on for weeks before I got my “a-ha” moment, so be patient, your time is coming.
Sally
Hi Sally, great post.
I have to admit I have lost my way a bit, a lot of which I am putting down to my new puppy keeping me busy
but I can’t really blame him. i should be taking my own advice when I hit a wall and just keep pushing on.
My traffic wasn’t bad and I finished another video. I’m getting ready for my next wave of energy!
All the best and talk soon.
Dave
.-= David Taylor´s last blog ..Video Message From David Taylor =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey David,
Aww a new puppy cool, what’s it name, Alex ha ha
I think quite a lot of us have struggled at some point, but we are all pushing on regardless,
congrats on your newest video, will need to have a look,
Sally
Twitter: joshuabartlett
says:
Hey Sally,
Its Josh here.. Thanks so much for your comments on my blog.
I stopped by your blog to have a look around today. Great stuff, congratulations and keep up the good work.
I have read your posts and noticed a very important pattern. You regularly feel worried about moving to the next step (like we all do) such as interviewing, speaking live on a call etc, but the important thing I noticed is, each time you push yourself forward and DO it..
That is EXTREMELY important and the reason you will succeed. Congratulations on moving out of your comfort zone!
You bring up another extremely important point too, a business based on weak foundations will fail..
That is why I always focus on trying to create what I call “SAI” (Sustained Automated Income) For me, what drove me to achieve that goal was that I knew once I mastered that I was free to work on what I WANTED to do. (which is help change peoples lives for the better) Always start with the end goal in mind.
Congratulations again and good luck in everything you do.
Keep in touch,
Josh Bartlett
.-= Josh Bartlett´s last blog ..Without This One Thing, We Would All Fail =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Josh,
Your blog post was so lovely and heart felt.
As I was reading it, I felt like I could have written it, it seems we all feel the same about working online and have the same reasons for wanting to find success, it’s not just about the money.
Yeah, I do worry about everything, but with Alex as my mentor I kinda feel untouchable, like I can do anything.
Plus with my fellow students encouraging me all the time, it’s just become so easy to keep moving forward.
Sally
Twitter: mrtejkohli
says:
Hey sally,
I’m totally smitten by your writing style, so simple yet so profound!
while we are half way through the 2010, i still hope the rest of your year goes as smoothly as it has gone thus far!
.-= Tej Kohli´s last blog ..Creating a Jurrassic Theme in your Kids Room =-.
Twitter: sallyneill
says:
Hey Tej,
Such a lovely compliment thank you, took me long enough to reply to your comment though, 2010 is goooooooooooooone and it’s now 2011, you must have sneaked this comment on without me seeing it ha ha,
Speak soon, Sally
Twitter: PaulChilversGri
says:
Hi Sally,
I was looking at some of your tweets a day or two ago and one of them pointed to this post from a year ago.
Reading through it, where you wrote…
“Alex told me to start all over again”, and that clinging on to the old you was not doing you any good because “times have changed and I need to change with them in order to find new success online”…
and…
“The dead weight of my previous business has been lifted from round my neck. It’s no longer holding me back, I … FINALLY KNOW WHERE I AM HEADED”…
just ties in so completely with something I wrote on my blog about two years ago, after the first Bristol workshop I attended in 2009:
“I clung onto the area of expertise I had previously spent years developing a presence in, but for which the passion had long since died [...]
Because I felt I “should”, having invested so much of who I am, or was, into that whole constellation, I was clinging onto it, until I finally realised I was letting it stop me from moving forward.”
I then added:
“Is there anything like that holding you back?
Your past life, “pre-Internet”, that is such a part of who you are you keep hanging on to it, even though you know it’s really no longer you?
Don’t you think it’s a shame to let what you used to want get in the way of achieving what you want for yourself and your family now?”
I’m sure you can identify with that…:-)
It’s kind of a long piece called “Getting Started in Internet Marketing in the UK”, sort of my underlying thoughts on the situation of the internet marketing newbie in the UK, and I’ve meanwhile recently put it on it’s own page with a link from a sticky post on the front page.
Anyway, I was in the same situation, still clinging to my old “publishing” identity even though I no longer really identified with it:
Pre-internet I used to be what you might even call a physical publishing guru on New Zealand and Australia in Germany (anybody in Germany in the Nineties who knew much about those countries generally knew who I was, and my magazine was mentioned in any guide book you might pick up), but the costs back then killed my magazine and didn’t do much better to me and the family I meanwhile had.
I then edited a fortnightly email newsletter in German on New Zealand for a former subscriber/advertiser for eleven years (and one on Australia for over nine of them).
It didn’t pay much but it at least paid something, plugging a few gaps in the sporadic income from translating, writing business plans for migrants, and the meagre royalties from a coffee table book I co-authored – the Amazon affiliate commission was several times higher than what the publisher paid….
(Previous to all that I actually had a “proper” job as a PR consultant in Frankfurt.)
Anyway, when I got online, although I had lost all interest in the topics, I felt that I had invested so much (in more ways than one) into my “NZ/AUS in Germany” identity that I “really should” do something in that area online, “this is where I have expertise and a reputation”.
And I do have some sites related to that, and even a couple of lists of two or three hundred, but my heart just wasn’t in it so I never really did much with them (despite an initial 100 per cent sign up rate to one of them without even a freebie…!).
Well, I kept saying I was going to stop doing the newsletter, but then I clung onto it anyway.
After Bristol 2009 I decided I was going to quit, and I wrote about it on my blog like this:
“But seriously, I came to the conclusion that it’s time to throw that ballast overboard.
Actually, I pictured to myself a little boat on a river, full of rocks, tied to the shore with a rope – and I took an axe and CHOPPED right through that rope with a single blow and watched as the boat drifted down the river and went crashing over a waterfall and smashed to pieces!”
Though as I also then went on to say, “In reality it’s been a bit harder to do that, as I’ve been earning a small part of my income through it…”.
I did actually “give my notice”, but said I’d keep doing it till the new guys were ready to take over.
15 months later and (because I’m such a loyal guy, putting others before myself all the time!) I was still editing that newsletter every two weeks….
Then in early September 2010 I attended my first Northallerton meet up (I had met Randy at Bristol 2009 as well, at breakfast).
Afterwards, in the beer garden out the back, I was talking to one of the guys about it, and while telling him about it I came to the conclusion that nothing was going to change unless I set a deadline. (He didn’t tell me to, but talking about it to someone clarified what I needed to do.)
So as soon as I got back to my little corner of Scotland I sent off an email to Germany that I would do the two issues in September and then that was it.
It turned out that because the business was in a massive growth phase, the reason for the delay was not the others not being ready to take over editing, but them getting the technical stuff in place for a new system they were planning.
In any case, I did my two last issues and that was that.
And I added this to my blog post:
“[Update: I finally did cut that boatload of ballast loose, after talking about it at a UK IM meetup, and you can't imagine how good it felt!]”
I bet you can…
Actually, I’ve just realised that first Northallerton meet up that was the turning point was a couple of days before you quit your job – there must have been something in the air that month!
Meanwhile I haven’t made the kind of progress that you have online, but I have got much more clarity of where I am headed and I am gradually moving forward.
And I’ve started posting on my blog again, beginning with one on the last Northallerton meet up, with links to your blog and the photos on the Facebook page (with a mention that you set it up for Randy, bit of third party endorsement
).
I’m planning on going to the next meet up if all goes well and look forward to seeing you there again.
Take care,
Paul
(“Kiwi” in South West Scotland)
P.S. If you have a moment, take a look at that post on my blog (hopefully the link above works! I tried HTML but it might not work in the comments), I think you’ll like it.
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